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Inspirational Leadership: Show And Tell

September 1st, 2011

Article by Michael D. Hume, M.S.

Model What You Want Your People To Do

by Michael D. Hume, M.S.

Whether you own your own business, or you’re trying to make your business “roar,” you need to inspire the greatest possible performance in your team. You do this by giving them clear goals and the resources they need… but you also do it by embodying what you want them to be like, both in attitude and action. That’s the essence of inspirational leadership.

There’s more to it, of course… selection of the right people… communication of the right things… all that stuff you do every day. But if you want to inspire above-average results, you have to be an above-average inspirational leader.

My consultant clients have always been most inspired by the senior people in their firms who embody the “great consultant” – the partner who has all the smarts, but is also a great person in every aspect of her life. As an actor, I remember the best shows – the “inspired work” – were the product of a great director who could not only intellectualize the performance he wanted, but could demonstrate how he wanted it done. And of course, the best salespeople make the best sales managers, in most cases. In virtually every industry and line of work, you’ll find the same to be true… the best leaders are the ones who can (and do) do it themselves… and do it to a high standard of excellence.

I’ve often told my clients there are really two ways to “model” what you want from your people – the accidental way, and the deliberate way. Anyone who is a parent of small children knows about “accidental modeling” – your kids watch everything you do, and they start by learning to mimic you. New staff members are not that different, so you have to develop enough self-awareness to know what you are accidentally modeling for your folks, lest they adopt habits you really don’t want (because they’re habits they know YOU to possess).

Accidental (“role”) modeling is powerful, but so is “deliberate” modeling. That’s where you sit down and actually show someone what you want them to do, and how to do it. “Here’s how I start when I do a spreadsheet forecast,” or “You might try this format on your reports,” or “Let me show you a shortcut I learned when I first started charting these findings” are examples of things the deliberate modeler finds herself saying. And the results can be outstanding.

There’s no doubt – as the leader, you have to, well, lead the way. Take a good look in the mirror (and get feedback when you can), and make sure you’re embodying the right things. And don’t be shy about sitting your folks down and being the teacher and coach. If you have the right attitude about it, you’re not overstepping your bounds or micro-managing – you’re providing help for which your team will likely be appreciative.

Michael Hume is a speaker, writer, and consultant specializing in helping people enjoy health, wealth, and inspiring lives. Those who want to make money “one less thing to worry about” can learn more at http://tinyurl.com/myownbiznow – anyone wanting more vitality can browse http://shop.enivausa.com/239824 – visit Michael’s web site at http://michaelhume.net










The Tapestry Award honors a GSB African-American alum who has woven inspirational leadership, excellence, and service to others into his/her professional and personal life. This year’s recipient was James H. Shelton, Assistant Deputy Secretary for Innovation and Improvement, US Dept. of Education. Like a finely textured fabric, this individual has, through their contribution and actions, reminded us of the strength, beauty, and integrity of our ancestry and the importance of maintaining these qualities in our lives. Related Links: www2.ed.gov alumni.gsb.stanford.edu
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Inspirational Leadership: It’s About Them, Not You

July 29th, 2011

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To Inspire Others, Put The Focus On Them

by Michael D. Hume, M.S.

The other day, I was working away in the friendly surroundings of a favorite coffee shop, when I noticed a woman at the next table who seemed to be conducting a job interview. I guess she was listening to the other person – she seemed to be capturing the content of what was said – but her facial expressions seemed almost forbidding. I tried not to hear what was being said (I don’t want to intrude on the privacy of others, even in public)… but it was clear that the “applicant” did not find this woman inspiring. Her responses, over the course of several minutes, showed it.

Many of my coaching clients seem to have the same effect on their colleagues, their teams, even their clients. Their questions, and even their comments, may seem supportive in content… but the non-verbals which accompany the content tell a different story. They come across as critical, not appreciative, and that makes inspirational leadership virtually impossible.

It seems to me that most people who can’t seem to put forth welcoming, empathetic facial expressions have probably learned somewhere back in their past that they need to look “tough,” or “smart,” or something other than friendly. It was probably a sort of social survival skill they picked up in their formative teen years… and those habits are often hard to break. But if you’re lacking empathy (which is a first step toward being an inspiring leader), consider that your brain might be stuck on an archaic social setting. Looking tough and smart probably served you better when the goal was to get people like teachers (and other high schoolers) to respect you… but it’s not doing much now for your effort to come across as more appreciative of others.

How do you fix it? How do you “reprogram” your facial expressions? Some coaches might tell you to spend some time in front of a mirror. That might work… but who wants to do that? Honestly, working with all types of folks from actors to executives, I find that few people can really get good, honest “practice” with facial expressions when they’re the only person from whom they can get feedback. The best way, complex as it may sound, is to role-play live (or video-tape role-plays or real discussions) in front of a coach, or at least some savvy colleagues who have an eye for empathy. Humble yourself, hear their feedback, and work on improving the way you come across.

The good news is that you CAN fix it. You can learn to come across with more empathy and appreciation (my clients do it all the time), and it helps everything from hiring great new folks for your business to getting the most detailed and honest input from advisors.

The bottom line is this: if you want to inspire someone to give you their best, you have to stop looking and acting like a theater critic and, instead, come across with empathy and appreciation. To do that, you first need the mindset that the discussion should be less about you and more about the other person… and then you need to practice (with good help) to make it happen.

 

 

Michael Hume is a speaker, writer, and consultant specializing in helping people maximize their potential and enjoy inspiring lives. As part of his inspirational leadership mission, he coaches executives and leaders in growing their personal sense of well-being through wealth creation and management, along with personal vitality.

Those with an entrepreneurial spirit who want to make money “one less thing to worry about” can learn more about working with Michael at http://www.caym.tv/18812

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Michael and his wife, Kathryn, divide their time between homes in California and Colorado. They are very proud of their offspring, who grew up to include a homemaker, a rock star, a service talent, and a television expert. Two grandchildren also warm their hearts! Visit Michael’s web site at http://michaelhume.net

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Inspirational Leadership: It’s About Them, Not You

July 20th, 2011

The Genesis of Inspirational Leadership
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Article by Michael D. Hume, M.S.

To Inspire Others, Put The Focus On Them

by Michael D. Hume, M.S.

The other day, I was working away in the friendly surroundings of a favorite coffee shop, when I noticed a woman at the next table who seemed to be conducting a job interview. I guess she was listening to the other person – she seemed to be capturing the content of what was said – but her facial expressions seemed almost forbidding. I tried not to hear what was being said (I don’t want to intrude on the privacy of others, even in public)… but it was clear that the “applicant” did not find this woman inspiring. Her responses, over the course of several minutes, showed it.

Many of my coaching clients seem to have the same effect on their colleagues, their teams, even their clients. Their questions, and even their comments, may seem supportive in content… but the non-verbals which accompany the content tell a different story. They come across as critical, not appreciative, and that makes inspirational leadership virtually impossible.

It seems to me that most people who can’t seem to put forth welcoming, empathetic facial expressions have probably learned somewhere back in their past that they need to look “tough,” or “smart,” or something other than friendly. It was probably a sort of social survival skill they picked up in their formative teen years… and those habits are often hard to break. But if you’re lacking empathy (which is a first step toward being an inspiring leader), consider that your brain might be stuck on an archaic social setting. Looking tough and smart probably served you better when the goal was to get people like teachers (and other high schoolers) to respect you… but it’s not doing much now for your effort to come across as more appreciative of others.

How do you fix it? How do you “reprogram” your facial expressions? Some coaches might tell you to spend some time in front of a mirror. That might work… but who wants to do that? Honestly, working with all types of folks from actors to executives, I find that few people can really get good, honest “practice” with facial expressions when they’re the only person from whom they can get feedback. The best way, complex as it may sound, is to role-play live (or video-tape role-plays or real discussions) in front of a coach, or at least some savvy colleagues who have an eye for empathy. Humble yourself, hear their feedback, and work on improving the way you come across.

The good news is that you CAN fix it. You can learn to come across with more empathy and appreciation (my clients do it all the time), and it helps everything from hiring great new folks for your business to getting the most detailed and honest input from advisors.

The bottom line is this: if you want to inspire someone to give you their best, you have to stop looking and acting like a theater critic and, instead, come across with empathy and appreciation. To do that, you first need the mindset that the discussion should be less about you and more about the other person… and then you need to practice (with good help) to make it happen.

Michael Hume is a speaker, writer, and consultant specializing in helping people enjoy health, wealth, and inspiring lives. Those who want to make money “one less thing to worry about” can learn more at http://tinyurl.com/myownbiznow – anyone wanting more vitality can browse http://shop.enivausa.com/239824 – visit Michael’s web site at http://michaelhume.net

Leadership Prayers

June 29th, 2011

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